How Can I Get More Friends?
- Admin
- Feb 28, 2017
- 3 min read
The best way to get more friends in your life is to increase your awareness of love. Whatever we focus on, meditate on, study, and talk about will grow in our experience, so making a practice of love will magnify the love in our lives.
Below are instructions for a very special personal practice that we at Voicings call the Love List. Anyone can do it, and as it is based on Universal principles of truth, it will work for everyone. We're excited for you to get started with your Love List and share your results.
The Love List
You can begin your love list by setting the intention to magnify the love in your life.
Then get a couple of sheets of paper and start writing the names of everyone you love, like, or have good feelings about. This includes strangers, such as your pizza delivery person or a Good Samaritan who might have helped you with a flat tire.
If you don’t know a person’s name, just describe the person very briefly, such as “friendly bus driver.”
Everyone on the list should be currently relevant to your life, whether they are living in the flesh or not. Leave off people from the past that you don’t think of very frequently, even if you were once close.
Remember, this is YOUR Love List. Only include those that you have strong positive feelings for, without conflict or ambivalence. This means you may be leaving off relatives, roommates, lovers, and others about whom you have mixed feelings. Don’t let guilt affect your choices.
Every time you look at any name on your list, you should feel completely good.
Make sure you include your own name.
If you have only a couple of names or even just one, it’s okay. You will benefit tremendously from this practice, and if you work with your Love List faithfully, it will grow. You WILL make more friends.
Now post your list in a visible yet private place in your home, preferably your bedroom.
If you share all your living space with others, then keep your list in a private journal so you can work with it during your alone time.
Don’t allow anyone who isn’t on the list to see it; they will probably feel hurt or insulted and may try to make you feel guilty about it. This practice works best when all your feelings connected to the list are clear and pleasant.
Now you have a community of love, made manifest in writing. You can see how many people you love and how many love you.
The Love List represents your Divine circle of love, and your intention is to magnify this list, to increase it.
Every day, look at your list and consciously send love to those on it. Occasionally read the names of your beloved ones out loud. Speak blessings to your list, wishing those on the list health, wealth, joy, peace, and love as often as you remember.
At least once a week take some time to meditate on the list, powerfully focusing all your attention on the feelings of love, care, and connection that you will experience.
You will find that you’re meeting more and more people to add to your list as time unfolds. The more you focus on harmonious loving relationships, the more peace you will feel within yourself, and the more sweetness you will elicit from others.
People in your life who are not even on your list will start to be kinder and more caring toward you.
You will be more attractive to others, and you will find that people reach out to you more, because you have been communicating with them in the Spirit, sharing love, light, harmony, and all the blessings you have been speaking to your Love List.
Work with your list diligently and frequently. Watch your circle of love grow. This practice alone, if worked faithfully, will dramatically change your life.
Have you made a Love List yet? Please feel free to share your results below!
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